Each and every one of us has the opportunity to be a leader at different times of our lives, whether it’s a leader in our business, our home or our community. The challenge for many of us is that we don’t have the fortitude to step up to the plate to become the type of leader that people trust

We all want to be somebody, we all ran the rat race that life is so as to finish on the podium, some of us get on the first lane and extend their hands to take others there, to touch the lives of others, through great leadership, through financial influence,through communal empowerment et all. But some people get in the first lane and consequently take advantage of the gullible many to become the ‘leaders’ in the society, leaders who are not there to build and empower the society, but rather to gather more wealth and feed their greed. Leadership is not for the many, but selected few

A legend tells of a French monastery known throughout Europe for the extraordinary leadership of a man known only as Brother Leo. Several monks began a pilgrimage to visit Brother Leo to learn from him. Almost immediately, they began to bicker about who should do various chores.

On the third day they met another monk going to the monastery, and he joined them. This monk never complained or shirked a duty, and whenever the others would fight over a chore, he would gracefully volunteer and do it himself. By the last day, the others were following his example, and from then on they worked together smoothly.

When they reached the monastery and asked to see Brother Leo, the man who greeted them laughed.

‘But our brother is among you!’ And he pointed to the fellow who had joined them.

Today, many people seek leadership positions, not so much for what they can do for others but for what the position can do for them: status, connections, perks, advantages. They do service as an investment, a way to build an impressive resume.

The parable about Brother Leo teaches another model of leadership, where leaders are preoccupied with serving rather than being followed, with giving rather than getting, with doing rather than demanding.

Leadership based on example, not command. This is called servant leadership. The leaders we decide to elect in 2017 must have:-
The qualities of skilful leadership

If you want to be a leader who attracts quality people, the key is to become a person of quality yourself.  Leadership is the ability to attract someone to the gifts, skills, and opportunities you offer as an owner, as a manager, as a parent.  I call leadership the great challenge of life. What’s important in leadership is refining your skills.  All great leaders keep working on themselves until they become effective.  Here are some specifics:

Learn to be strong but not rude

It is an extra step you must take to become a powerful, capable leader with a wide range of reach.  Some people mistake rudeness for strength.  It’s not even a good substitute.

Learn to be kind but not weak

We must not mistake kindness for weakness. Kindness isn’t weak.  Kindness is a certain type of strength.  We must be kind enough to tell somebody the truth.  We must be kind enough and considerate enough to lay it on the line. We must be kind enough to tell it like it is and not deal in delusion.

Learn to be bold but not a bully

It takes boldness to win the day.  To build your influence, you’ve got to walk in front of your group. You’ve got to be willing to take the first arrow, tackle the first problem, and discover the first sign of trouble.

You’ve got to learn to be humble, but not timid

You can’t get to the high life by being timid.  Some people mistake timidity for humility. Humility is almost a God-like word.  A sense of awe.  A sense of wonder.  An awareness of the human soul and spirit. An understanding that there is something unique about the human drama versus the rest of life.  Humility is a grasp of the distance between us and the stars, yet having the feeling that we’re part of the stars.  So humility is a virtue; but timidity is a disease. Timidity is an affliction.  It can be cured, but it is a problem.

Be proud but not arrogant

It takes pride to win the day.  It takes pride to build your ambition. It takes pride in community.  It takes pride in cause, in accomplishment.  But the key to becoming a good leader is being proud without being arrogant.  In fact I believe the worst kind of arrogance is arrogance from ignorance, like demonstrated by one of our own, the bullfighter. It’s sad when you don’t know that you don’t know.  Now that kind of arrogance is intolerable.  If someone is smart and arrogant, like our son who has decided to build his own ship to sail with, we can tolerate that.  But if someone is ignorant and arrogant, that’s just too much to take.

Develop humour without folly

That’s important for a leader. In leadership, we learn that it’s okay to be witty, but not silly. It’s okay to be fun, but not foolish.

Lastly, deal in realities.  Deal in truth.  Save yourself the agony.  Just accept life like it is. Life is unique.  Some people call it tragic, but I’d like to think it’s unique. The whole drama of life is unique.  It’s fascinating.  And I’ve found that the skills that work well for one leader may not work at all for another.  But the fundamental skills of leadership can be adapted to work well for just about everyone: at work, in the community, and at home.

Now, the big question is, who amongest the aspirants got all this qualities,,? Go ponder, do your math and be sure to put your vote where your future lies

(c) mwanaaReginah

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